Aug 16

Suceeding, One Re-start at a Time.

Sometimes I wonder how people manage to accomplish anything.  I have a procrastination problem and a completion problem.  I can do the middle.  I do sometimes have a problem getting myself in gear and “staying the course” is a constant challenge.  Once I get started I can execute the necessary steps.  It’s repeating those steps indefinitely that I have trouble managing. I’ve come to the conclusion that success is a matter of starting over, and over, and over….

People who stay married all their life long aren’t necessarily happier than the rest of us.  They just have more staying power.  They get up and start over every day and never reach that point where it just doesn’t seem worth the effort.  The time never comes when they weigh the benefits against difficulties and decide to just give up.

People who work at the same job for 30 years and retire with a full pension are becoming rare animals.  Most of us, give up long before that point and start looking for something different to do.  We make all kinds of excuses, but the plain truth is boredom.  We get tired of doing the same thing, in the same place, with the same people day after day, after month, after year.  We’re always hoping for something better over the horizon.

We’re told success involves setting goals, then listing measurable steps to reach those goals and working at them consistently.  My granddaughter is taking a financial management class this semester.  Her first assignment was to set short-term and long-term goals, six months, a year, five years, etc. Then list the steps she would take to accomplish them.  The “experts” tell us this is the path to success in anything we undertake.

Life vs. Editorial

I can do the planning.  The planning is part of my procrastination.   I enjoy that part and I, sometimes, avoid finishing that stage for days or weeks.  I choose goals, set steps and start off with energy and determination, only to decide it’s not really working and start planning all over again.  When I finally have a plan that I can follow, it works well for a while.  Then along comes an interruption, a deviation is required and somehow I never get back on track.  So, I have to start the planning again.

The road to completion of a goal must have a completion.  There is a point at which you say, “Ok, that’s done.  Time to move on to the next thing.”  I just can’t seem to stay on that path.  Somehow, it gets twisted and heads back to the beginning with no noticeable branching.  I am trapped on a mobius strip.   I simply keep traveling the endless loop without ever reaching a destination.

This problem was not evident to me when I had a job to go to or classes to attend.  Those provided an external source that forced me to adhere to the path.  There were tasks to be completed and turned in to a supervisor or professor on a regular schedule.  When I write web copy or design a website for a client, there is a deadline holding me accountable.  Setting my own deadlines simply doesn’t have the same effect.

Since coming back from vacation, I have had trouble getting myself motivated again.  I have spent the last week meditating on points in my life when I didn’t follow through to my intended goal.  I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s not really a character flaw per se.  I can complete a goal.  I did, after all, earn my bachelor’s degree and no on forced me to continue driving 90 miles each way to Murray for classes two or three days a week.  No one insisted I had to complete my homework and show up for class.  I did all that because it was a goal I had set myself.

Therefore, I can set myself a goal and follow it.  I simply have to make myself keep starting over every time life interrupts my plan.  I need to look on minor glitches as “snow days” and larger ones as semester breaks.

 

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Jul 18

Building the Foundation

I’m on vacation. According to Merriam-Webster that means:

1. a respite or a time of respite from something : intermission
2. a : a scheduled period during which activity (as of a court or school) is suspended b : a period of exemption from work granted to an employee
3. : a period spent away from home or business in travel or recreation

For many of us today, it seems to mean working as usual in a different location without the comfort and convenience of our usual workspaces. So, I’m typing this on a laptop balanced on my crossed legs instead of my usual desktop with two 23-inch monitors and and a wireless keyboard. While the couch I’m sitting on may be more comfortable than my office chair, it also exposes me to more distractions. Overall, I still need to get my work done and the environment makes it more difficult.

Still, I only need to work a few hours a day and the remainder of my time is spent in a new location with family members I rarely get to see. So, I pay for my vacation time with the slightly less comfortable worktime. Trade offs are the order of our society. For every prize we must give up something, be it time, money or our comfort zone. To be safe, we must sacrifice a level of freedom. To have “stuff” we must pay with cash or with effort. To have friends, we must be a friend. Everything in life has a price of some sort.

To take a vacation, we must have the ability to pay for food, shelter, etc. for a period of time without actually earning money during that time. That means working at a job that will give us vacation pay, saving money to pay for our time off, finding a generous third party to pay for our travels, or having a way to earn money even on vacation.

Over the years, I’ve tried several methods but, currently, I am combining saving money with working while on vacation. As a writer, I can do my “job” where ever I happen to be. Of course, I’m not getting paid much for doing it, but every dollar counts.

Most of my writing, at present, is geared toward building a platform…a reputation, so to speak…to create a portfolio of articles or posts that can be used to demonstrate my writing ability. This is practice time. A period of honing my skills before submitting proposals to publishers. I expect to spend a year or so practicing my writing every day both publicly and privately before attempting to sell anything.

This will mean posting to each of our four blogs each week, engaging in guest posting, participating in flash fiction exercises (the public part) and working on the various aspects of two novels for at least an hour each day (the private part). When most people, myself included until lately, think of writing a book, they envision simply sitting at the computer and typing for hours on end, day after day, for a year or more. There is much more to it than that. To write convincingly about anything, you must experience it yourself or do lots of research to find out the details. To keep from doing months of major revisions, you need to have a basic plan and keep going back to it as you write.

I am currently working on the research and planning part. The writing is happening, but only in sections. So far, it has no coherence. I know the overall goal and sort of how it begins, but the middle part (the most important part) is still in flux. As I work on the plan, some of it will be tried out on my writing blog. Come on over and sample the results.

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Jul 05

Use it or Lose it….

It’s a sad fact that the less you exercise, the less you feel like exercising.  As my mother got older, she, like her mother before her, had a lot of trouble with arthritis. Eventually, she gave up doing handicrafts such as sewing and crochet because her hands hurt too much.  As the degeneration spread, she stopped moving around any more than necessary and the less she moved, the weaker she got.

I started having joint problems when I was only in my mid-thirties.   I laughingly called it “traveling arthritis” because the pain was located in a different joint each winter.  The first episode involved a knee that ached all one winter.  Everytime I sat down, I covered my lap with an afghan, like an old granny, to keep that knee warm.  When the weather warmed up, the pain subsided only to flair again as temperatures dropped.

The next winter, the problem moved to my left shoulder and so on.  By the time I was 40, my hands hurt most of the time.  I was working in the data center of a trucking company.  This was in ancient computer times.  The system filled an L-shaped 300 square foot room.  The System 38 IBM hard drives were prone to overheating, so it was necessary to keep the room temperature below 70º F at all times.  The thermostat was set at 65° F year round.  I wore gloves with the fingertips cut out and my hands still ached terribly by the end of the day.

Around this time, I heard about a dietary supplement called Glucosamine.  I decided it to give it a try.  By the next winter my pain was nearly gone.  I’ve been taking it in various forms for more than 20 years now and I hardly ever have to deal with arthritis pain anymore.  The only exception is the knee I injured in 2004.

I stepped in a hole and twisted my left leg so severely that the top of the shin bone splintered vertically.  Needless to say, all the ligaments and tendons were badly damaged as well.  To repair it, the doctor attached a metal plate to the outside of the bone, just below the knee, with screws.  It took six months for me to be able to use the knee normally without some sort of support.

Presently, the knee sometimes pops, but it seldom hurts. The pain is lower, in the shin bones, it isn’t usually severe, but it does limit my exercise ability.  I still take my Glucosamine.  The problem is that a week without walking leaves my struggling to make my mile.  My left knee & shin ache, my right hip has spells of sciatica that is made worse by strain.  My wind gets short as well, then the heat sucks up my energy and I just don’t want to struggle with it all.  Until I remember my mother sitting in her rocker, in pain every day and never getting better.

So, on the days when it is too hot to walk outdoors, I try to remember to get up from my chair and run through my Yoga workout a couple of times during the day.  It may not burn enough calories to help me lose my excess pounds, but it does keep my joints from freezing up.

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Jun 21

Mexican Chicken and Rice Casserole

This is based on a Kroger recipe – They suggest putting it on taco shells, but we treat it as a casserole.  Kind of a one dish meal.  It has become one of our favorites.

 

Prep Time: 5 min
Cooking Time: 20 min

Ingredients

  • 2 cups Chicken Breast, Grilled/broiled
  • 12 oz Brown Rice (frozen)
  • 1 cup Frozen Sweet Corn
  • 1/2 tsp Sea Salt
  • 2 cups Mexican Style Cheese,finely Shredded
  • 12 oz Diced Salsa Style Tomatoes Fire Roasted In Tomato Puree
  • 16 oz Tomatillo Salsa Verde, Medium
  • 12 oz Bush’s Black Beans

 

Directions

Preheat oven to 450 degrees. Spray a 13×9 baking dish with cooking spray. Drain and rinse black beans. Shred or chop the chicken breasts. Mix all ingredients except 1 cup of the shredded cheese in a large bowl. Spread evenly into baking dish. Top with remaining cheese.

Bake at 450 degrees for 20 minutes, or until bubbling. Let stand 5 minutes.

Can be served in taco shells, over tortilla chips or as a casserole.  Top with sour cream, or guacamole if desired.

Nutrition Facts

Serving Size: 1 1/5 chicken tacos
Amount per Serving                 Calories 232                        Calories from Fat 72.9

% Daily Value *
Total Fat 8.1g                                   12%
Saturated Fat 4g                                20%
Cholesterol 20mg                          6%
Sodium 888mg                               37%
Total Carbohydrate 21.05g        7%
Dietary Fiber 4.25g                         17%
Sugars 3.55g                             
Protein 19.25g                              38%

Est. Percent of Calories from:

Fat
27%
Carbs
36%
Protein
33%

* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2,000 calorie diet. Your daily values may be higher or lower depending on your calories needs.

 

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Jun 21

Mad Dogs and English….

As we move into summer, it becomes harder for me to stay motivated to work out.  This morning we moved our daily walk time back a half hour and it was still 82 degrees by the time we finished our park trail route.  As temperatures continue to climb, I’ll have to find an alternative.  I simply can’t handle exercise at temperatures much above 80 degrees.

It hasn’t been easy for me this past week.  My breathing ability hasn’t improved much.  I thought it would adjust as I got back into a routine, but it doesn’t seem to be happening.  At least, my legs aren’t stiffening up and getting sore, but that may mean I’m not working hard enough.  I know for sure my weight isn’t dropping very much.

So here’s the update: I missed doing much of anything from the sixth through the eleventh.  That’s not as bad as it sounds since the ninth and tenth were the weekend when I don’t normally do any planned workouts anyway.

From the Monday the eleventh through Thursday the fourteenth, I averaged 1.4 miles a day at about 3 miles per hour.  That is my standard.  On Friday, I spent the day catching up on blog work and didn’t get out of the house at all.  I do try to remember to get up from my chair and stretch every couple of hours, but I don’t have a way to quantify that.

On Saturday, the 16th, I sort of made up for Friday by going to the Handy Blues Festival and spending the afternoon wandering around taking pictures.  It wasn’t aerobic, but between the walking, the time there (about 4 hours), and the heat, I figure I burned some significant calories.

On Sunday, we did our monthly grocery shopping which involves pushing a cart that gets progressively heavier up and down aisles full of people who don’t care whether they are in your way or not.  The frustration alone should burn off a layer of fat. We spent a good 2 hours in the store, and I’d say it counts.

So, this week I’ve hit the park trail three days so far and walked around the block here at home the other day for a total of 5.25 miles at an average of 3 miles per hour.   If I make it out tomorrow, I’ll have completed a whole week.  For the time being, my goal is, at least, one mile per day, five days a week.

Since I’ll be leaving on a 3 week road trip on July ninth, that month will be unpredictable.  We’ll only be traveling for about a week of that.  The other two weeks we’ll be visiting my grandson and his family in Montana. He’s stationed at Malstrom Air Force base there and I’m sure there will be someplace that I can get my miles in while we’re there.  On the road, we’ll be staying at La Quinta Inns and they usually have a workout room available, so I just have to keep myself motivated along the way.

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